Love is not an emotion. Love is a Person. A person who has all the emotions that make you feel to WANT them and eventually NEED them. And THIS feeling Never changes, even if the person does. Well technically that’s how it should be..But sadly it doesn’t. To err is Human. to Change is Human. And the only thing that is constant in a Human is their Soul. So unless you have really fallen in love with the soul of a Human and absolutely nothing else, then you would every now and then keep falling out of love.
If you thinking all love stories start with falling in love with the soul of another person, then let me tell you, chances are that is true just one minuscule percent of the time. Rest every single time, love has its myriad forms. You fall in love with her smile, his physique, her figure, his wealth. her understanding nature, his humor , her patience, his strong attitude and so much, much more.
Only when you fall in love with the Soul of the person that’s when all that you have loved until now seems nothing. The power of the Soul outnumbers all the qualities of the Greek Gods and Goddesses.
When asked on a recent survey what is the first thing that men and women notice in a person the highest votes went for: Overall Personality, Smile, Positive Attitude, Sense of Humor, Professional position, Similar Likes.
All the possible qualities and No Spark.
” I heard her name for the first time somewhere and I felt as if THIS very girl , I want to see. Irrespective who she is, what she is, what she does or how she even looks. Just the sound of her name, and I want to know her more”. Does this happen anymore?
” He walks in to a room full of people. He does not have a Greek God personality. But there is something that makes me want to see him. Again. And again. Something that says that I should know him. Who he is, what he is, what does he do, No idea. But for some reason I want to know this very person. ” Does this happen anymore?
All this and more sounds very irrational in the times that we live in. But when this does happen and if you go ahead with this feeling, then there isn’t any feeling, which I believe, greater than this. Because somewhere way above the universe your soul has chosen this person much before you could even decide.
Marrying someone, staying with someone and being with someone who loves you and you don’t or to improve a relationship is like gambling to become rich. Most of the time, and more likely always, you will only lose what you had. Commitment can be a wonderful experience, but from what the truth teaches, it’s not appropriate for everybody. Pause, step back and reflect until you become aware of what`s best for you and your partner. Don’t be with him/her because they need you, but because you Want to. Dating for a couple of years and marrying because it is the next best thing to do, is not an answer. Marrying because you both feel the need to wake up next to that very person and grow old with that person is the reason.
For example, if you’re not destined to be involved right now, you have a choice of accepting it, concentrating on other areas of your life and preparing for a new relationship, or allowing it to cause you unhappiness. As another example, if you meet a wonderful person with whom you are destined to share a short-term, mutually compatible relationship rather than a life-long one, you have a choice of accepting this and enjoying it for what it’s meant to be, or allowing the fated ending to cause you unhappiness. You can take the high road or the low road. Reacting out of love rather than fear will create a better life.
A true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake – Elizabeth Gilbert
If you realize who your true soul mate is within time, you would hold them and never let them go. If you let go, they are never coming back. As the way they tip toed in with a little spark, same way they shall tip toe out, igniting in your soul a fire that shall never again go out. Everything else around remains the same. But you will never be the same again. Love may knock the doors of your heart many a times, but being in love with a soul? It never knocks ever again, because it never did when it first walked in.
P.S. Break someone’ s heart and it will heal with time. Break someone’s Soul and an eternity will surpass but the Broken Soul may never be whole again.